Post by tantrashiva on May 31, 2022 3:56:25 GMT -6
Sex and everything related to it has always been very taboo among societies, especially when it comes to talking about limitations and traumas in relation to this practice, that is why there are many people who do not have sexual relations as full and healthy as they are. they would like but they do not dare to speak and seek help in order to heal.
Sex and everything related to it has always been very taboo among societies, especially when it comes to talking about limitations and traumas in relation to this practice, that is why there are many people who do not have sexual relations as full and healthy as they are. they would like but they do not dare to speak and seek help in order to heal.
However, they miss the fact that there are hundreds of therapies and tools that would help them find the source of the problem, overcome it and begin to have a full, satisfying sexual practice, full of passion, confidence in themselves and their partner and that connects them. with their interior and that of the person who is with them.
One of these tools is tantra massage, which seeks to evaluate the emotional and sentimental reality of the person, in addition to his physical condition through the study of the chakras or energy centers. In fact, the latter is precisely the most important for this therapy and it is the one that allows, through the work of these energy points distributed throughout our body, to achieve the objectives set. Thus, it is not only about applying any massage, but about some with certain specific purposes of sexual and emotional improvement.
Thus, the person in charge of applying the therapy must know what type of massages and in which energy points to perform them, as part of a complete healing process, which sometimes must begin by unblocking the emotions and their expression until reaching finally to the points that allow to stimulate the desire and sexual delivery.
While, for his part, the patient must take an active part in the process, knowing that he is a key part of the success of the treatment, since finding healing is a job that belongs only to us and although we can receive help and guidance, no one can do it. in our place.
Even tantra not only helps individuals, but also couples who are having sexual problems between them and that could be triggered by situations of their interaction as a couple, allowing them to work together to achieve individual and mutual knowledge and respect and trust to re-establish a healthy sex life.
The different tantric techniques
Maite Domenech, an expert in tantric therapy, explains some of the techniques she uses to help heal patients:
Hindu emotional massage. It is a type of massage that is applied to the patient while he is completely naked and that differs from a traditional massage because it seeks to align the yin and yang that runs through our body. This means that emotions will be able to flow freely through the patient's body, allowing them to be explored, identified, known and experienced, guiding us towards the different traumas that must be attacked.
Tantric massage for the chakras. This massage is usually combined with the Hindu emotional massage or tantra massage and it involves placing gems in each of the different energy centers throughout the body with the aim of balancing the chakras.
Tantra massage. The objective of this massage is to help the person to use her creative energy (Kundalini), consciously, and in combination with the Mandalas, meditations, sexual yoga and tantric dances. Here, the one who applies the therapy must know that this type of massage can only be done when all the hakras in the body are truly open in such a way that the desired healing is achieved, and not the opposite effect, of creating more emotional conflicts. In addition, the fact that he hardly applies it in the right way can make the patient create feelings of attachment towards him.
tantric massage
Of all these techniques, we must talk in depth about tantric massage, which can be in two ways:
Tantric massage for therapeutic purposes.
The tantric couple massage that is used to improve the sexual relationship.
The latter would be the one that concerns us in this type of therapy since it will be the one that allows us to penetrate the body armor that the body has been forming to defend itself from the negative feelings resulting from the trauma and get to the bottom of it to do the job. necessary to heal wounds.
To heal wounds we have to dedicate ourselves to working in the genital area. Worse, it is not a matter of simple caresses seeking to arouse desire, but of deeply reflecting on the reaction and behavior of the patient in the face of physical contact, for example, showing shame, modesty, naturalness, etc.
But, tantra not only helps you heal your sexual wounds, it also helps you improve and boost your sexual life as a couple, providing you with many benefits. In fact, according to the specialized website Tantraway.com, the contributions of tantra to sexuality include the "deepening of the orgasm and greater knowledge and connection with the body."
While according to the master expert in sexual tantra Munindra:
“Tantra is fashionable because there is an intuition that there is more to sex than just having a good time, and because sexuality in the West has always been pretty poor, despite the sexual revolution.
Working on that energy can be directed towards artistic creativity or to recreate oneself, like the myth of the phoenix, which is reborn from its ashes”.
And it is that what happens many times is that what we really know about sex is the basics, the instinctive, the same as a mere animal would know. So if we give ourselves the task of knowing in depth this physical practice as a couple and living it in a more conscious way and more connected to our physical and emotional responses to each caress, we will be opening a door to much deeper emotions and sensations during sexual practice.
Tips to improve your sex life through tantra
Design a sacred space: Tantra sees sexual practice not as something superficial and occasional, but as a sacred surrender. For this reason, the room in which the act is to be performed should be considered an altar. It should be clean, nicely decorated and welcoming; You can also light scented candles and put on some music, and preferably avoid technology.
Breathe: In the practice of tantra, breathing, in sync with that of your partner, is a key factor in achieving the connection and the longed-for surrender. This happens because by uniting the breaths, a synchrony is achieved between the two and the biological rhythms are coordinated.
Keep your eyes wide open: Contrary to what many may think, tantra asks to keep your eyes always open during sexual practice, with each kiss and caress, so that you can establish with your partner that connection so deep and intimate that only achieved through the gaze.
Take it easy: To be aware of our actions, we must do things slowly. Then, there should be foreplay (which can be a massage) and then patiently enjoying sex.
Give priority to sensuality. Today sex is dominated by the porn industry in which everything revolves around male pleasure, orgasm is sought at all costs and women are only one way to achieve it through completely sexual stimulation and detached from being. Tantra, for its part, seeks that the act be performed through sensuality, or in other words, the ability to cause pleasure through sensory stimulation. For example, words whispered in the ear, panting, contact with sweat, soft skin... The importance of smell as an almost animal attraction, the dim and dim light of candles, complicit glances, even letting the imagination run wild and expressing our desire without taboos and without mechanical gestures.
Be empathetic and listen. Another pillar of tantra is listening and understanding our partner to give each other sexual pleasure, taking into account what your partner is feeling, what he wants and what he expresses throughout the practice, avoiding being absorbed in our own pleasure.
Sex and everything related to it has always been very taboo among societies, especially when it comes to talking about limitations and traumas in relation to this practice, that is why there are many people who do not have sexual relations as full and healthy as they are. they would like but they do not dare to speak and seek help in order to heal.
However, they miss the fact that there are hundreds of therapies and tools that would help them find the source of the problem, overcome it and begin to have a full, satisfying sexual practice, full of passion, confidence in themselves and their partner and that connects them. with their interior and that of the person who is with them.
One of these tools is tantra massage, which seeks to evaluate the emotional and sentimental reality of the person, in addition to his physical condition through the study of the chakras or energy centers. In fact, the latter is precisely the most important for this therapy and it is the one that allows, through the work of these energy points distributed throughout our body, to achieve the objectives set. Thus, it is not only about applying any massage, but about some with certain specific purposes of sexual and emotional improvement.
Thus, the person in charge of applying the therapy must know what type of massages and in which energy points to perform them, as part of a complete healing process, which sometimes must begin by unblocking the emotions and their expression until reaching finally to the points that allow to stimulate the desire and sexual delivery.
While, for his part, the patient must take an active part in the process, knowing that he is a key part of the success of the treatment, since finding healing is a job that belongs only to us and although we can receive help and guidance, no one can do it. in our place.
Even tantra not only helps individuals, but also couples who are having sexual problems between them and that could be triggered by situations of their interaction as a couple, allowing them to work together to achieve individual and mutual knowledge and respect and trust to re-establish a healthy sex life.
The different tantric techniques
Maite Domenech, an expert in tantric therapy, explains some of the techniques she uses to help heal patients:
Hindu emotional massage. It is a type of massage that is applied to the patient while he is completely naked and that differs from a traditional massage because it seeks to align the yin and yang that runs through our body. This means that emotions will be able to flow freely through the patient's body, allowing them to be explored, identified, known and experienced, guiding us towards the different traumas that must be attacked.
Tantric massage for the chakras. This massage is usually combined with the Hindu emotional massage or tantra massage and it involves placing gems in each of the different energy centers throughout the body with the aim of balancing the chakras.
Tantra massage. The objective of this massage is to help the person to use her creative energy (Kundalini), consciously, and in combination with the Mandalas, meditations, sexual yoga and tantric dances. Here, the one who applies the therapy must know that this type of massage can only be done when all the hakras in the body are truly open in such a way that the desired healing is achieved, and not the opposite effect, of creating more emotional conflicts. In addition, the fact that he hardly applies it in the right way can make the patient create feelings of attachment towards him.
tantric massage
Of all these techniques, we must talk in depth about tantric massage, which can be in two ways:
Tantric massage for therapeutic purposes.
The tantric couple massage that is used to improve the sexual relationship.
The latter would be the one that concerns us in this type of therapy since it will be the one that allows us to penetrate the body armor that the body has been forming to defend itself from the negative feelings resulting from the trauma and get to the bottom of it to do the job. necessary to heal wounds.
To heal wounds we have to dedicate ourselves to working in the genital area. Worse, it is not a matter of simple caresses seeking to arouse desire, but of deeply reflecting on the reaction and behavior of the patient in the face of physical contact, for example, showing shame, modesty, naturalness, etc.
But, tantra not only helps you heal your sexual wounds, it also helps you improve and boost your sexual life as a couple, providing you with many benefits. In fact, according to the specialized website Tantraway.com, the contributions of tantra to sexuality include the "deepening of the orgasm and greater knowledge and connection with the body."
While according to the master expert in sexual tantra Munindra:
“Tantra is fashionable because there is an intuition that there is more to sex than just having a good time, and because sexuality in the West has always been pretty poor, despite the sexual revolution.
Working on that energy can be directed towards artistic creativity or to recreate oneself, like the myth of the phoenix, which is reborn from its ashes”.
And it is that what happens many times is that what we really know about sex is the basics, the instinctive, the same as a mere animal would know. So if we give ourselves the task of knowing in depth this physical practice as a couple and living it in a more conscious way and more connected to our physical and emotional responses to each caress, we will be opening a door to much deeper emotions and sensations during sexual practice.
Tips to improve your sex life through tantra
Design a sacred space: Tantra sees sexual practice not as something superficial and occasional, but as a sacred surrender. For this reason, the room in which the act is to be performed should be considered an altar. It should be clean, nicely decorated and welcoming; You can also light scented candles and put on some music, and preferably avoid technology.
Breathe: In the practice of tantra, breathing, in sync with that of your partner, is a key factor in achieving the connection and the longed-for surrender. This happens because by uniting the breaths, a synchrony is achieved between the two and the biological rhythms are coordinated.
Keep your eyes wide open: Contrary to what many may think, tantra asks to keep your eyes always open during sexual practice, with each kiss and caress, so that you can establish with your partner that connection so deep and intimate that only achieved through the gaze.
Take it easy: To be aware of our actions, we must do things slowly. Then, there should be foreplay (which can be a massage) and then patiently enjoying sex.
Give priority to sensuality. Today sex is dominated by the porn industry in which everything revolves around male pleasure, orgasm is sought at all costs and women are only one way to achieve it through completely sexual stimulation and detached from being. Tantra, for its part, seeks that the act be performed through sensuality, or in other words, the ability to cause pleasure through sensory stimulation. For example, words whispered in the ear, panting, contact with sweat, soft skin... The importance of smell as an almost animal attraction, the dim and dim light of candles, complicit glances, even letting the imagination run wild and expressing our desire without taboos and without mechanical gestures.
Be empathetic and listen. Another pillar of tantra is listening and understanding our partner to give each other sexual pleasure, taking into account what your partner is feeling, what he wants and what he expresses throughout the practice, avoiding being absorbed in our own pleasure.